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Is the gender gap an evolutionary problem?

By DHughes|2017-02-14T18:54:28-05:00September 12th, 2016|Categories: business, politics, social|Tags: Bruce Fritch, Davos, Global Gender Gap, Jennifer Openshaw, Muhtar Kent, Peninah Thomson, Raj Sisodia, Sheryl Sandberg, Women Thrive, World Economic Forum|

Three things you might not know: Women are still a staggering 118 years away from closing the gender gap. Women hold only 20% of executive positions When women are outnumbered in a group they speak for almost a third less time than men. Synopsis According to the World Economic Forum's 2015 Global Gender Gap report, women are still a Read more...

Men on top? Women on top? What’s up with work, marriage, love and sex?

By DHughes|2016-12-10T00:41:00-05:00March 14th, 2013|Categories: business, social|Tags: Hanna Rosin, Love, Marina Adshade, marriage, men, Michael Kimmel, sex, Sheryl Sandberg, Women|

Keeping it up at both ends is not easy when you both work and it's damn near impossible when there are kids. Who wrote the book of love? Well there's a bunch of them Everybody, including the neighbor, has an opinion on how to find a balance between office and home, career and family, money and kids, love Read more...

My personal history is the stuff they write books about. And that's what I am doing. The working title "Five Generations to Freedom."

It's historical fiction because, unfortunately, I can not find enough records to substantiate all facets of the story. I've combed the genealogy, traveled to my father and grandmothers' birthplace, walked the graveyards, searched the churches and ... well, the facts just aren't there. I have written three books based on other families and their genealogy but my ancestors emerged from a journey that left few records – slavery.

My great grandmother, on my father's side, was a "freed slave." My grandmother, Amelia, was born to a white, French plantation owner in Grenada and a black slave named Mary, who worked on the Count de Poulain's plantation. Amelia was raised in her father's home and in adulthood, in an attempt to escape her black heritage, she "disowned" her mother Mary. Once, when Mary visited her daughter, Amelia told her, "Get out and never come back." And Amelia, as a mother herself (twelve children), told all of them, "Marry white." And many did, including my father. My mother was white Anglo-Saxon protestant born in England. They met in Canada where dad became a doctor.

It has taken five generations for the descendants of Mary (we do not know her last name) to free themselves from the bondage and stigma of their black heritage. But today, my children embrace it and are damn proud of it. Unfortunately, the 150 years in between has been a wasteland of bigotry, racism and bullying, Filled with anger, rejection, shame, fear, violence, murder and ... love, romance, kindness, perseverance and pride.